Month: November 2022

You Have Been Lied To-Sweat the Small Stuff!

You Have Been Lied To-Sweat the Small Stuff!

In the late 90s, there was a popular book that told you to not sweat the small stuff. When it comes to leadership or self help the path to tremendous results includes sweating the small stuff. If you are looking to improve results or yourself there is only one way to drive improvement and growth. The secret to success is to repeatedly do ordinary things that ultimately produce extraordinary results. Discipline is what produces results! Defining discipline and what it really means is challenging. Discipline is doing what you said you were going to do long after the feeling you had when you committed to this task has gone away. In life, it is common to get excited and dive into something when following somebody else’s enthusiasm and passion. It is when that feeling of enthusiasm and passion ...
The Power and the Influence of Love in Leadership

The Power and the Influence of Love in Leadership

I was talking with a colleague at work and he told me he heard this saying that people will follow fear but they will die for love. We talked about the simplicity and power in that statement, and that statement has captivated my attention and focus in relation to leading others. The more interesting piece is that my colleague told me that it was a Navy SEAL that made the statement. This statement was made by an elite warrior. The Navy SEALS are some of the toughest, most aggressive, and most violent warriors on this planet and this guy is talking about the power of love in relationship to leadership. I needed to learn more! I am fortunate to have grown up with a friend that went on to serve as a Navy SEAL for a number of years. His name is Shane and I often talk to him about leadership ...
Why I Made a Career Change and the Future of this Site

Why I Made a Career Change and the Future of this Site

As an educator, I always avoided the teacher’s lounge. The teacher’s lounge was far too negative for me and it was often used as a place to vent. I stopped in the teacher's lounge to grab a snack I heard a teacher make this comment. “I am so sick of getting gaslit by twelve-year-olds.” I grabbed my snack and moved on quickly. Then I reflected on this statement. Since the dawn of education, there has been these type of incidents. A teacher asks a kid why they threw a pencil and the kid denies throwing the pencil. This is not gaslighting this is a kid being a child. This simple experience drove me to reflect on my career as an educator. This was a microcosm of the societal issues that are penetrating schools across the country. I had to make a change.  I have recently transitioned fr...